All I need is a person who will always by my side
Who will held my hand
When things get hard
All I need is a person who will be in my sight
Who will wipe my tears
When my heart cried
All I need is a person whose heart belongs to me
Who love me without expectations
Whoever I may be
All I need is a person who will trust me blindly
Who will always listened
To all my story
All I need is a person who will understand me deeply
Who will know the real person
That lies inside me
Above all this I know what I wanted
All that I need is a person like you
Someone who cared and love me too
Monday, November 29, 2010
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
How To Tell If It's True Love?
True Love, Lust, Or Friendship?
So, you feel that swelling in your heart. The kind that makes you want to write poetry and beautiful music. You have the crazy indescribable urge to broadcast to the world that you're in love and make frequent references to friends and colleagues about the object of your affection. You are on a delicious, delirious high and feel that nothing can bring you down now that you have finally found 'The One'.
But is it genuine true love that you have stumbled across or an insidious impostor? One that leaves a trail of broken hearts and broken promises everywhere. History is replete with stories of unconditional love that reached almost to the heights of heaven itself. Couples who were bonded so closely that nothing could come between them. Unfortunately for every one of those tales there are literally thousands more which end in sorrow and despair. Most of the time the pain that results from a relationship ending has more to do with our own unrealised fantasies and lost hope than it has to do with our choice of mate. There are notable exceptions to this of course.
The difficulty lies in trying to maintain a realistic view of our partner and the relationship while our hormones and their rush of 'love endorphins' undermines our every turn. The phrase "Love is Blind" was coined for a reason.
Lust and The Honeymoon Period
By now the term 'honeymooon period' has become a mainstream label for the beginning of a relationship. It is the time when your significant other can do no wrong. They are perfect in every way, held aloft on a mighty pedestal where every day you go to worship at the beauty of their creation. This is the most dangerous time when errors in judgement can be profound and long lasting. During this period (even with the sudden rush of love hormones) our intuition will tell us when something is not quite right. The problem is for most of us we choose not to listen.
Compatibility issues can surface almost immediately and we should be thinking long and hard about whether these are things we can live with for the long term or whether this person really is the dream mate we have envisioned. It is the overwhelming passion of the 'honeymoon period' that has many people mistaking lust for love. A lot of 'I do's' have been said out of lust and pure physical attraction and when the endorphins die down there is no foundation left from which a life together can be built.
Friendship And The Desire To Couple
Many people have envisioned a life spent with a close friend. These romantic friendships sometimes involve sex and sometimes they do not but one thing they all have in common is the desire for closeness. It usually starts when two people find that they are surprisingly similar. They begin to hang out all of the time and feel truly comfortable in each others presence. They are able to communicate freely and trust implicitly. It is easy to mistake such a wonderful bond as true love, however, there are usually key elements, such as passion, which are missing. Both parties soon talk themselves into believing that they would make a good couple just because they are such great friends. This rarely turns out to be true. It is usually our feelings of loneliness that have us running for the arms of a friend. Unfortunately, without those intangible extras that exist when romantic love is truly present, the relationship often falters. And more heartbreaking is the fact that afterwards the friendship rarely survives either.
So What Is True Love?
Lovingkindness, compassion, joy and freedom.
But what does this mean in terms of your own relationship?
Lovingkindness
When you truly love someone you embrace them for who they are this very minute. You do not have fantasies about what you believe they could evolve into. You accept their shortcomings and foibles and sometimes love them all the more because of it. You have the desire to create happiness for them and through your actions are able to bring about lasting joy in their lives. This requires a deep level of understanding with regards to your mates wishes. Many people have done things with the intent to build a better life for their partners only to find out that their actions caused more pain and suffering to occur. The resultant argument usually starts with the sentence "You just don't understand" or "You never listen." True love always listens!
This doesn't mean you will never have an argument. How boring would life be if we all agreed on everything. But there is a distinct difference between a disagreement which eventually brings two people closer together and a situation where one or both people feel alienated and deeply hurt.
Compassion
When your love is pure your primary intention is to remove the pain and suffering that has plagued your partner throughout their lives. We all come into relationships with baggage, past failures and disappointments, that can overwhelm the present if we let it. Being able to help heal the old wounds of your beloved is what compassion is all about. If you truly love someone you cannot stand to see them suffer. Helping them to overcome their hurt and fear in a compassionate way establishes trust. One of the foundations of a strong and long lasting relationship.
Joy
Every day you should feel absolute joy when you wake up next to your beloved. Obviously there will be times when difficulties arise. The universe throws curve balls at us all the time that we have to find a way to deal with. But even through those dark times you should feel grateful that your partner is by your side. They should be able to make you laugh when all you want to do is cry. They should be able to hold you even when they have made you mad. There should be laughter and light not tears and darkness. You should never feel alone and unhappy within your relationship.
Freedom
Freedom is an essential element for love. You have to have the freedom to be yourself and express your true desires. You have to be able to confidently give your partner all the space and freedom they need to live a fulfilling life. If you become angry or upset because your mate wants to spend time alone or with friends, or if you become jealous over the passion they have for their work or hobby then this is called selfish love. You are more concerned with your own desires than allowing them the freedom to truly shine within themselves. We all need things outside of a relationship to make us complete human beings. If we do not have access to those things we begin to wither inside. When you have truly found 'The One' you will feel a sense of freedom that has previously been missing in past relationships.
What True Love Isn't
True love is never associated with violence, deception, abuse (emotional, physical or verbal), constant sacrifice for the good of only one person, jealousy, fear or mistrust.
"True love always waits." And is patient, caring, kind, joyous and free!
br.
brokenhearted
So, you feel that swelling in your heart. The kind that makes you want to write poetry and beautiful music. You have the crazy indescribable urge to broadcast to the world that you're in love and make frequent references to friends and colleagues about the object of your affection. You are on a delicious, delirious high and feel that nothing can bring you down now that you have finally found 'The One'.
But is it genuine true love that you have stumbled across or an insidious impostor? One that leaves a trail of broken hearts and broken promises everywhere. History is replete with stories of unconditional love that reached almost to the heights of heaven itself. Couples who were bonded so closely that nothing could come between them. Unfortunately for every one of those tales there are literally thousands more which end in sorrow and despair. Most of the time the pain that results from a relationship ending has more to do with our own unrealised fantasies and lost hope than it has to do with our choice of mate. There are notable exceptions to this of course.
The difficulty lies in trying to maintain a realistic view of our partner and the relationship while our hormones and their rush of 'love endorphins' undermines our every turn. The phrase "Love is Blind" was coined for a reason.
Lust and The Honeymoon Period
By now the term 'honeymooon period' has become a mainstream label for the beginning of a relationship. It is the time when your significant other can do no wrong. They are perfect in every way, held aloft on a mighty pedestal where every day you go to worship at the beauty of their creation. This is the most dangerous time when errors in judgement can be profound and long lasting. During this period (even with the sudden rush of love hormones) our intuition will tell us when something is not quite right. The problem is for most of us we choose not to listen.
Compatibility issues can surface almost immediately and we should be thinking long and hard about whether these are things we can live with for the long term or whether this person really is the dream mate we have envisioned. It is the overwhelming passion of the 'honeymoon period' that has many people mistaking lust for love. A lot of 'I do's' have been said out of lust and pure physical attraction and when the endorphins die down there is no foundation left from which a life together can be built.
Friendship And The Desire To Couple
Many people have envisioned a life spent with a close friend. These romantic friendships sometimes involve sex and sometimes they do not but one thing they all have in common is the desire for closeness. It usually starts when two people find that they are surprisingly similar. They begin to hang out all of the time and feel truly comfortable in each others presence. They are able to communicate freely and trust implicitly. It is easy to mistake such a wonderful bond as true love, however, there are usually key elements, such as passion, which are missing. Both parties soon talk themselves into believing that they would make a good couple just because they are such great friends. This rarely turns out to be true. It is usually our feelings of loneliness that have us running for the arms of a friend. Unfortunately, without those intangible extras that exist when romantic love is truly present, the relationship often falters. And more heartbreaking is the fact that afterwards the friendship rarely survives either.
So What Is True Love?
Lovingkindness, compassion, joy and freedom.
But what does this mean in terms of your own relationship?
Lovingkindness
When you truly love someone you embrace them for who they are this very minute. You do not have fantasies about what you believe they could evolve into. You accept their shortcomings and foibles and sometimes love them all the more because of it. You have the desire to create happiness for them and through your actions are able to bring about lasting joy in their lives. This requires a deep level of understanding with regards to your mates wishes. Many people have done things with the intent to build a better life for their partners only to find out that their actions caused more pain and suffering to occur. The resultant argument usually starts with the sentence "You just don't understand" or "You never listen." True love always listens!
This doesn't mean you will never have an argument. How boring would life be if we all agreed on everything. But there is a distinct difference between a disagreement which eventually brings two people closer together and a situation where one or both people feel alienated and deeply hurt.
Compassion
When your love is pure your primary intention is to remove the pain and suffering that has plagued your partner throughout their lives. We all come into relationships with baggage, past failures and disappointments, that can overwhelm the present if we let it. Being able to help heal the old wounds of your beloved is what compassion is all about. If you truly love someone you cannot stand to see them suffer. Helping them to overcome their hurt and fear in a compassionate way establishes trust. One of the foundations of a strong and long lasting relationship.
Joy
Every day you should feel absolute joy when you wake up next to your beloved. Obviously there will be times when difficulties arise. The universe throws curve balls at us all the time that we have to find a way to deal with. But even through those dark times you should feel grateful that your partner is by your side. They should be able to make you laugh when all you want to do is cry. They should be able to hold you even when they have made you mad. There should be laughter and light not tears and darkness. You should never feel alone and unhappy within your relationship.
Freedom
Freedom is an essential element for love. You have to have the freedom to be yourself and express your true desires. You have to be able to confidently give your partner all the space and freedom they need to live a fulfilling life. If you become angry or upset because your mate wants to spend time alone or with friends, or if you become jealous over the passion they have for their work or hobby then this is called selfish love. You are more concerned with your own desires than allowing them the freedom to truly shine within themselves. We all need things outside of a relationship to make us complete human beings. If we do not have access to those things we begin to wither inside. When you have truly found 'The One' you will feel a sense of freedom that has previously been missing in past relationships.
What True Love Isn't
True love is never associated with violence, deception, abuse (emotional, physical or verbal), constant sacrifice for the good of only one person, jealousy, fear or mistrust.
"True love always waits." And is patient, caring, kind, joyous and free!
br.
brokenhearted
IMPOSIBLE KAYANG MANGYARI TO???
Imposible ba na ang lahat ng mga bata ay talagang magkaroon ng pagkakataon na maging bata? Na sila’y makapaglaro, makapag-aral, at maging ligtas sa mga sakuna dahil mayroong nagpoprotekta sa kanila? Tuwing nakakakita ako ng mga bata na nagpapalaboy o nagtatrabaho imbes na nag-aaral, nalulungkot talaga ako. Hindi man naging sobrang saya ng kabataan ko, masasabi ko naman na nagkaroon ako ng childhood at hindi lumipas ang mga panahon na iyon na hindi ko na-enjoy ang pagiging isang bata. Yung mga bata na naglalatag ng kamote, nakita ko sila sa Hidalgo, malapit sa simbahan ng Quiapo. Pinagmamasdan ko sila habang hinahanay ng maayos ang mga paninda nila. Minsan wala talagang ibang choice kung hindi ang kumayod din para sa ikabubuhay nila. Kahit saan ka nga tumingin may mga bata na nagtatrabaho sa murang edad. Minsan nagkakarga ng mga paninda sa palengke, nagbubungkal ng mga basura, gumagawa ng mga paputok, at kung anu-ano pa. Sana dumating ang panahon na mag-evolve ang society natin, at maging mas angkop para sa ikabubuti ng mga bata, tutal, sila naman ang pag-asa ng bayan talaga. Sana ang mga magulang, iisipin ng mabuti kung kaya ba nilang magtaguyod ng pamilya bago bumuo ng sangkatutak na mga anak. Imposible din ba na magkaroon ng mas maraming programa ang gobyerno para proactively na maprotektahan ang mga karapatan ng mga bata? Heto ang listahan ng mga karapatan na iyon:
1. Maipanganak, magkaroon ng pangalan at nasyonalidad.
2. Magkaroon ng mag-aalaga at mapagmahal na pamilya.
3. Mabuhay ng mapayapa sa isang komunidad and mabuting kapaligiran.
4. Makakain ng sapat at nagkaroon ng aktibo at malusog na pangangatawan.
5. Magkaroon ng edukasyon at mahubog ang kanilang potensiyal
6. Karapatan sa paglalaro at libangan.
7. Magprotektahan laban sa abuso, pagpapabaya, karahasan at panganib.
8. Madepensahan at matulungan ng pamahalaan
9. Mapahayag ang kanilang mga saluobin at pananaw.
1. Maipanganak, magkaroon ng pangalan at nasyonalidad.
2. Magkaroon ng mag-aalaga at mapagmahal na pamilya.
3. Mabuhay ng mapayapa sa isang komunidad and mabuting kapaligiran.
4. Makakain ng sapat at nagkaroon ng aktibo at malusog na pangangatawan.
5. Magkaroon ng edukasyon at mahubog ang kanilang potensiyal
6. Karapatan sa paglalaro at libangan.
7. Magprotektahan laban sa abuso, pagpapabaya, karahasan at panganib.
8. Madepensahan at matulungan ng pamahalaan
9. Mapahayag ang kanilang mga saluobin at pananaw.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Ang Tunay Na Kaibigan
Sa panahon ngayon mahirap makahanap ng mga tunay na tao, mga kaibigan na karamay mo sa lahat ng oras. Kung minsan akala mo tapat sayo lahat ng iyong kaibigan. Subalit hindi mo napapansin mayroong maayos sa harapan, at hindi sa talikuran. Iyon ay isa lamang halimbawa ng di tapat o di tunay na kaibigan. Ang iba sa atin akala, ang tropa ay kaibigan. Subalit sila ay nagkakamali. Ano nga ba talaga ang pagkakaiba ng tropa sa kaibigan?
Para sa akin iba ang kahulugan ng tropa sa kaibigan. Ang tropa ay para lang sa tambayan. Ibang iba sa kaibigan. Ang kaibigan ay iyong makakaramay, tawanan man o iyakan. At ikaw ay dadamayan sa oras ng kailangan.
Paano mo nga ba malalaman kung ang tinuturing mong kaibigan ay tunay na kaibigan? Ang tunay na kaibigan maliit man o malaki ang iyong problema, hindi ka iiwan o pababayaan. Hindi ka hahayaang gawin mo ang mga maling bagay na sa iyong kanyang makikita. Sa madaling sabi ikaw ay itutuwid niya sa mga pagkakamaling iyong tinatahak sa iyong buhay.
Naniniwala ka ba na ang kaibigan kung minsan ay kaaway? At ang kaaway kung minsan ay kaibigan? Ako ay naniniwala na kung minsan ang tinuturing mong kaibigan, siya ang nagiging mortal mong kaaway.Kung minsan maling sabihin lahat ng iyong lihim sa itinuturing mong kaibigan. Mali pala ang masyadong magtiwala. Dahil kung minsan sa bandang huli, kung sino yung tinuring mong kaibigan ay isa lang palang kasangkapan iyong matagpuan ang mga tunay na kaibigan.
Kung minsan ang pagkakaibigan ay sinusubok ng mga suliraning dumarating sa atin. Suliraning at problemang kay tindi na akala mong naging dahilan ng pagkawala ng tunay mong kaibigan o gaano ka katatag at malakas para haraapin ang ,ga iyon. Subalit ito lamang ay pagsubok upang iyong malaman mo kung sila nga ba ay tunay na kaibigan. At ito ang pagsubok na magbibigay kahulugan sayo ng tunay na kaibigan. Sa totoo lang, ang tunay na kaibigan kahit paulit ulit man kayong magaway lagi iyang nandyan. At hinding hindi ka ipagpapalit niya kahit magkaroon man siya ng mga bagong kaibigan.
Tunay ngang ang pakikipagkaibigan ay isang paglalaan ng panahon. Ngunit sa tingin ko, hindi naman talaga panahon ang inilalalaan. Kapag naglalaan ako ng panahon sa matalik kong kaibigan, hindi panahon ang binibigay ko. Sarili ko ang aking binibigay. Ganoon rin sila. Pakikipagkaibigan ay pagbibigayan ng sarili. Dahil kahit kailan, hindi ka makakakita ng tulad niya. Kahit pagsama-samahin mo pa lahat ng nagkagusto sa’yo, may gusto sa’yo at magkakagusto sa’yo. Kahit pagsama-samahin mo pa lahat ng nagustuhan mo, gusto mo at magugustuhan mo. Kahit ilang A-to-Z pa ‘yan, wala kang makikitang katulad niya. Isang pagbibigayan na hindi naman nawawalan ka ng sarili, kundi kusang nagkaroon pa. Mas tumutubo ako, mas tumutubo rin tayo sa mismong pagbibigayan natin ng sarili, sa mismong pagkakaibigan natin.
Kay sarap ng tag-araw kung kapiling ang matalik na kaibigan — maaring kasama sa pamamahinga, kasama sa pamamasyal, kasamang maglakad sa mabuhanging dalampasigan, o kasamang maligo sa dagat, o kasama sa pakikibaka — lahat ay isang pagsasayang ng panahon sa matalik na kaibigan. Sayang ba talaga? Sayang sa mga taong hindi nakikita ang halaga ng isang tunay na kaibigan, sayang sa isang taong hindi nauunawaan ang kahulugan ng pakikipagkaibigan, sayang sa isang taong takot magtaya ng sarili sa isang kaibigan. Ang pagtataya ay handang magsayang, ngunit naroon rin ang handang mag-alay ng sarili ng buhay sa isang kaibigan. Pagsasayang ang pag-aalay. Sayang ba talaga ang mag-alay ng buhay para sa isang matalik na kaibigan? Sayang sa isang walang kaibigan, sayang sa taong sarili lamang ang inaatupag at laging nagsasabing “problema sa inyo, hindi kayo marunong makibagay at makipagkaibigan sa akin.” Hindi ba na ang maging makasarili ay isang tunay talagang pagsasayang? Sayang ang mga pagkakataong tumubo sana ako, sayang ang mga pagkakataong nalampasan ko ang aking pagkamakasarili at takot magbukas ng sarili, sayang ang pagkakataong lumabas sa pader ng aking ego, sayang! natuklasan ko sana ang kayamanan ng isang matalik na kaibigan.
Marasap sa pakiramdam magkaroon ng maraming kaibigan. Subalit kung minsan ang iba mong kaibigan ay panandalian lamang. Ibig sabihin sila ay di mo matatawag na kaibgan. Hindi ba’t mas masarap magkaroon ng konting kaibigang at totoo kaysa sa marami nga pero plastik naman sayo? Konti man ang iyong kaibigan basta tunay at di ka iniiwan, ikaw ay mas nakaaangat o mas nakahihigit sa iba. Dahil ang tunay na kaibigan, bihira mong makakamtan.
Para sa akin ang tunay na kaibigan ay isang brilyante na kailanman ay hindi ko ipagpapalit kanino man. Mas gugustuhin kong magkaroon ng iisang kaibigang tunay kaysa sa marami nga subalit kahit kailan hindi ko naman maipagmamalaki. Masarap talaga magkaroon ng tunay na kaibigan. Kaibigang alam ang kahulugan ng salitang “kaibigan”. Kaibigang maipagmamalaki at masabing “tunay ka kaibigan”.
Ako, gusto kong pasalamatan ang aking mga kaibigan. Habang hindi pa huli ang lahat, gusto kong gawin ang responsibilidad ng isang tunay na kaibigan. Ngayon, masayang masaya ako sa aking mga kaibigan. Subalit mayroon nga ba akong tinuturing na tunay subalit peke lamang? Sana ay wala. Dahil nakakalungkot talagang kung iyong iisipin.
Ngayon buo na sa aking isipan ang kahulugan ng tunay na kaibigan. Hindi ba’t kung ikaw ay may sama ng loob sa iyong kaibigan ay masarap sa pakiramdam na ito’y ibahagi sa kanya? Laging mong tandaan na walang tunay na magkaibigang hindi nagkakapatawaran. Kaya ako, hangga’t may oras, hangga’t sila’y nariyan. Sila’y aking iingatan at hindi pababayaan. At sa kanila’y aking ipararamdam ” AKO AY TUNAY SA IYO KAIBIGAN WAG LANG MAGAGAMIT.....
Brokenhearted,
Para sa akin iba ang kahulugan ng tropa sa kaibigan. Ang tropa ay para lang sa tambayan. Ibang iba sa kaibigan. Ang kaibigan ay iyong makakaramay, tawanan man o iyakan. At ikaw ay dadamayan sa oras ng kailangan.
Paano mo nga ba malalaman kung ang tinuturing mong kaibigan ay tunay na kaibigan? Ang tunay na kaibigan maliit man o malaki ang iyong problema, hindi ka iiwan o pababayaan. Hindi ka hahayaang gawin mo ang mga maling bagay na sa iyong kanyang makikita. Sa madaling sabi ikaw ay itutuwid niya sa mga pagkakamaling iyong tinatahak sa iyong buhay.
Naniniwala ka ba na ang kaibigan kung minsan ay kaaway? At ang kaaway kung minsan ay kaibigan? Ako ay naniniwala na kung minsan ang tinuturing mong kaibigan, siya ang nagiging mortal mong kaaway.Kung minsan maling sabihin lahat ng iyong lihim sa itinuturing mong kaibigan. Mali pala ang masyadong magtiwala. Dahil kung minsan sa bandang huli, kung sino yung tinuring mong kaibigan ay isa lang palang kasangkapan iyong matagpuan ang mga tunay na kaibigan.
Kung minsan ang pagkakaibigan ay sinusubok ng mga suliraning dumarating sa atin. Suliraning at problemang kay tindi na akala mong naging dahilan ng pagkawala ng tunay mong kaibigan o gaano ka katatag at malakas para haraapin ang ,ga iyon. Subalit ito lamang ay pagsubok upang iyong malaman mo kung sila nga ba ay tunay na kaibigan. At ito ang pagsubok na magbibigay kahulugan sayo ng tunay na kaibigan. Sa totoo lang, ang tunay na kaibigan kahit paulit ulit man kayong magaway lagi iyang nandyan. At hinding hindi ka ipagpapalit niya kahit magkaroon man siya ng mga bagong kaibigan.
Tunay ngang ang pakikipagkaibigan ay isang paglalaan ng panahon. Ngunit sa tingin ko, hindi naman talaga panahon ang inilalalaan. Kapag naglalaan ako ng panahon sa matalik kong kaibigan, hindi panahon ang binibigay ko. Sarili ko ang aking binibigay. Ganoon rin sila. Pakikipagkaibigan ay pagbibigayan ng sarili. Dahil kahit kailan, hindi ka makakakita ng tulad niya. Kahit pagsama-samahin mo pa lahat ng nagkagusto sa’yo, may gusto sa’yo at magkakagusto sa’yo. Kahit pagsama-samahin mo pa lahat ng nagustuhan mo, gusto mo at magugustuhan mo. Kahit ilang A-to-Z pa ‘yan, wala kang makikitang katulad niya. Isang pagbibigayan na hindi naman nawawalan ka ng sarili, kundi kusang nagkaroon pa. Mas tumutubo ako, mas tumutubo rin tayo sa mismong pagbibigayan natin ng sarili, sa mismong pagkakaibigan natin.
Kay sarap ng tag-araw kung kapiling ang matalik na kaibigan — maaring kasama sa pamamahinga, kasama sa pamamasyal, kasamang maglakad sa mabuhanging dalampasigan, o kasamang maligo sa dagat, o kasama sa pakikibaka — lahat ay isang pagsasayang ng panahon sa matalik na kaibigan. Sayang ba talaga? Sayang sa mga taong hindi nakikita ang halaga ng isang tunay na kaibigan, sayang sa isang taong hindi nauunawaan ang kahulugan ng pakikipagkaibigan, sayang sa isang taong takot magtaya ng sarili sa isang kaibigan. Ang pagtataya ay handang magsayang, ngunit naroon rin ang handang mag-alay ng sarili ng buhay sa isang kaibigan. Pagsasayang ang pag-aalay. Sayang ba talaga ang mag-alay ng buhay para sa isang matalik na kaibigan? Sayang sa isang walang kaibigan, sayang sa taong sarili lamang ang inaatupag at laging nagsasabing “problema sa inyo, hindi kayo marunong makibagay at makipagkaibigan sa akin.” Hindi ba na ang maging makasarili ay isang tunay talagang pagsasayang? Sayang ang mga pagkakataong tumubo sana ako, sayang ang mga pagkakataong nalampasan ko ang aking pagkamakasarili at takot magbukas ng sarili, sayang ang pagkakataong lumabas sa pader ng aking ego, sayang! natuklasan ko sana ang kayamanan ng isang matalik na kaibigan.
Marasap sa pakiramdam magkaroon ng maraming kaibigan. Subalit kung minsan ang iba mong kaibigan ay panandalian lamang. Ibig sabihin sila ay di mo matatawag na kaibgan. Hindi ba’t mas masarap magkaroon ng konting kaibigang at totoo kaysa sa marami nga pero plastik naman sayo? Konti man ang iyong kaibigan basta tunay at di ka iniiwan, ikaw ay mas nakaaangat o mas nakahihigit sa iba. Dahil ang tunay na kaibigan, bihira mong makakamtan.
Para sa akin ang tunay na kaibigan ay isang brilyante na kailanman ay hindi ko ipagpapalit kanino man. Mas gugustuhin kong magkaroon ng iisang kaibigang tunay kaysa sa marami nga subalit kahit kailan hindi ko naman maipagmamalaki. Masarap talaga magkaroon ng tunay na kaibigan. Kaibigang alam ang kahulugan ng salitang “kaibigan”. Kaibigang maipagmamalaki at masabing “tunay ka kaibigan”.
Ako, gusto kong pasalamatan ang aking mga kaibigan. Habang hindi pa huli ang lahat, gusto kong gawin ang responsibilidad ng isang tunay na kaibigan. Ngayon, masayang masaya ako sa aking mga kaibigan. Subalit mayroon nga ba akong tinuturing na tunay subalit peke lamang? Sana ay wala. Dahil nakakalungkot talagang kung iyong iisipin.
Ngayon buo na sa aking isipan ang kahulugan ng tunay na kaibigan. Hindi ba’t kung ikaw ay may sama ng loob sa iyong kaibigan ay masarap sa pakiramdam na ito’y ibahagi sa kanya? Laging mong tandaan na walang tunay na magkaibigang hindi nagkakapatawaran. Kaya ako, hangga’t may oras, hangga’t sila’y nariyan. Sila’y aking iingatan at hindi pababayaan. At sa kanila’y aking ipararamdam ” AKO AY TUNAY SA IYO KAIBIGAN WAG LANG MAGAGAMIT.....
Brokenhearted,
Monday, November 1, 2010
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