Nasaan ba talaga ang tunay na pag-ibig?

Saan ba natin puwedeng makita ang tunay na pag-ibig? Teka san ko ba puwedeng matagpuan ito? Karaniwan ito ang tanong nating lahat.At bilang isang taong nilalang ng Diyos naghahanap tayo ng pagmamahal.

Si God ang first love ko, first love nating lahat, pero minsan nagtatanong tayo “bakit hindi ko maramdaman ang love ni God?”, “bakit kailangan niya ako pahirapan ng ganito?”, “minsan ayaw ko ng maniwala sa kanya dahil wala naman talagang nangyayari”, “Lord asan na yung lalake/babaeng para sa akin, tumatanda na ako wala pa rin siya?”.

Simple lang ang sagot, kulang tayo sa “FAITH”, sabi nga ni Christian Bautista sa the kitchen musical, “We gotta have faith!”.Masyado tayong nagiging negative sa buhay natin, and always remember negative are come from evil. Satan is trying to deceive us but throwing us negative thoughts, “what if pag ganito?, ganon,” walang katapusang what-if at pagwoworry.

Balik tayo sa paghahanap ng tunay na pag-ibig. Ang sarap siguro kapag nahanap mo na yung tunay na pag-ibig mo, hindi ito yung sweetest moments, romantic scenes, kundi ito yung state of love na talagang kahit bagyo o gumunaw ang mundo eh hindi maglalaho ang pagmamahal niyo para sa isa’t isa , parang “even death do us part!” imbes na “till death do us part”.

Natanong mo na ba kung magkakaroon ka rin ng “true love”, or love story katulad ng ibang tao na nakuha nila ito?.

Para tayong mga libro, mga sulatin, meron tayong tinatawag na “author of our life”.Merong iba sa atin na tayo mismo ang nagpapaandar ng buhay natin which is ok rin naman at mas marami sa atin na pinapaandar ng buhay natin ng ibang tao, pano? pinapaandar nila tayo sa pamamagitan ng relihiyon, gobyerno, paniniwala, media at marami pang iba.Pero ako si God lang ang author ng life ko sana ikaw din.

Si God , writer din yan kung maituturing. Siya kasi yung nagsusulat ng magiging istorya ng buhay natin, siya ang nagdedesisyon kung may maganda bang ending para sa atin. Hindi siya yung diyos na inaakala mo na nakaupo lang dun sa kalawakan, nakaupo na parang nanonood lang ng t.v at tayo ang pinapanood niya. Nagsusulat siya at nagdedesisyon kung ano bang nararapat na love story ang ibibigay niya sa bawat tao na humihiling nito sa kanya. Naghahanap siya ng tao na malayo sa kahilingan mo ngunit nararapat para sa pagmamahal mo at pagnahanap na niya saka lang uli siya magsusulat at pagsasalubungin ang mga landas ninyo.

Alam ni God na hindi magiging masaya ang isang tao na walang kapareha, meaning God knows na we cannot feel his inner and greater love by loving Him invisibly, the perfect way para iparamdam ni God kung gaano niya tayo kamahal eh by giving us partners in life. Pansin mo , ang panget ng asawa mo pero mahal na mahal mo, ibig sabihin niyan, marumi ka, makasalanan ka pero mahal ka ni Lord di ba?

Gusto niyang matutunan natin at maintindihan kung paano tatanggapin ang pag-ibig, pano magbigay nito, paano aalagaan ito, paano natin maapreciate ito in the best way we could ever imagine. Gusto niya matagpuan natin yung tao na tatanggap sa atin sa kabila ng kapangitan ng itsura natin, sa kabila ng pagiging mainipin natin, sa kabila ng mga negative traits na maiimagine mo. Hindi niya talaga ibibigay yung taong inaasam asam mo na maganda, pogi, mabait,mayaman ang gusto niya eh yung taong tatanggap sa atin.

Ang iba sa atin natagpuan na ito pero alam niyo ba na maraming tao parang iba yung ginagawa para matagpuan ito. Ang mga sumusunod ay karaniwang ginagawa natin through the quest of finding romance.

1. Ang paghahanap kay “The One” – ibig sabihin makikipag-date tayo kung kanino lang, pupunta ng disco clubs, makikipaghangout there, makikipagkilala sa mga lalake/babae diyan sa labas.At kapag may nakita ng mukhang intersado sayo at intersado ka sa kanya..

2. Fall in “love” – ito na yung magic, mahuhulog ka sa tao, merong first sight, kapag tumibok ng malakas ng dibdib ibig sabihin siya na at iclaim na fall in love ka na sa taong iyon.In love ka na hindi mo pa nakikilala yung tao.

3. Nagsisimula ka ng “mangarap” – ibig sabihin, sinisimulan mo ng pangarapin siya na ang magiging asawa mo, magkakaanak kayo ng isandaan at limampu..joke lang.. ito yung gagawa ka ng paraan para makita siya, para makasama siya kahit iwan mo na ang trabaho mo, iwan mo na magulang mo at makipagtanan ka.

4. At last step, kapag nabigo ka , iniwan ka niya, niloko ka niya ok lang yan repeat step 1, 2 and 3. Oh di ba paikot-ikot lang ang buhay pag-ibig mo, kawawa ka naman.

O, tapos magtatanong ka ngayon, paano ko mahahanap yung taong yun eh ginagawa ko yang sinabi mo sa steps sa taas para lang mahanap iyon, ilang luha na ang naidilig ko sa lupa.

Well ganito yon, hayaan mong si God na ang magsulat at magdesisyon para sa buhay mo, stop authoring your own life! that’s it!

Pikon ay laging Talo

Marami ka bang kaibigan o namimili ka lang? Sa panahon ngayon mahirap ng humanap ng ganito kahit isa man lang. Ikaw, meron ka ba nun o bumibili ka lang. Anjan yung lilibre mo sila, reregaluhan kahit walang okasyon at parang laging fiesta para magpasikat kahit bukas eh mangutang ka na lang. Hindi ko naman sinasabing masama ang ganito pero alam ko ang takbo ng isip mo kahit hindi ka pa nagsasalita. Tama ba ko?!

Ako, marami akong masasabing tunay na kaibigan kahit wala o may ilalabas akong pera. Eh, ikaw?! Try mo lang, baka walang matira sayo. Alam naman namin ang paguugali mo, sayang naman konti na lang ang matitirang mabait kaso may problema madali pa naman silang mamatay at ang kagaya mo ay tulad ng isang masamang damo, matagal mamatay. At marami pang magdudusa sa mga kamay mo!
Aware ka ba sa pinagagagawa mo? At alam mo rin bang maraming tao ang galit sayo. Kung hindi malas mo naman walng taong concern sayo na pwedeng magsabi o humarap sayo. At bakit nga ba maraming takot sayo? halimaw, asawang, mangkukulam o may sakit ka bang nakakahawa? O minsan ang katahimikan nila ang siyang unti-unting uusig sa konsiyensya mo at pinapasa Diyos na lang ang lahat at naniniwalang ang mga bagay ay may dahilan at sa karmang tatalbog at ihahagis sayo na hindi mo pinapangrap asamin habang ikaw ay buhay.
Sa bagay, nagsisimula na ang lahat. Hindi mo lang napapansin sapagkat mababaw pa lang at kung ako sayo magbabago na ko at hindi na tuluyan pang humagupit sayo ang balik ng karma. Maisip ko pa lang ang salitang KARMA, nakakatakot na. Habang may buhay, may pag-asa. Ang gulong ay laging umiikot, minsan nasa ibaba at darating din ang araw na ako naman ang tataas dahil nalagpasan ko na ang pagsubok ng buhay.
Dahil ba sa hindi lumalaban ang isang tao ay masasabi ng mahina? May panahon na ang pipi ay makakapagsalita para ipagtanggol ang saloobin. Ang bulag ay makakakita ng liwanag at tunay na nangyayari sa kapaligiran at ang mga bingi ay makakarinig ng maliwanag na katotohanan. Maghintay ka! Sa pagbangon ko isa na kong isang matatag at malakas na tao, handang ipaglaban ang tama sa mali at baka sisihin mo lang ang sarili mo kung bakit ako naging ganito. Hindi sa lahat ng oras kaya mong tapakan ang pagkatao ng lahat dahil sa alam mong hindi nila kayang lumaban. Ito'y hindi isang papankot bagkus isang paalala ng isang nagmamahal.

"Nobody's perfect so why practice", sabi nga ni ai-ai sa isa niyang pelikula...bakit mo nga ba pipiltin na magbago kung taliwalas naman sa ugali, prinsipyo at maging sa pagkatao mo. Dahil ba sa sinabi sayo o hindi akma sa paningin ng iilang tao? kahit alam mo sa sarili mo, mga taong malapit sayo at kilala ka ng lubusan na wala kang ginagawang masama at hindi nakakapak ng kapwa. Mahirap pakisamahan ang mga taong ayaw talagang kumilala sayo dahil sa personal na kadahilanan. gumawa ka man tama mali pa rin sa mga mata nila at sa simpleng kamalian ay biglang nilamon ka ng batikos. Para kang isang taong may sakit, isang bilanggo na lahat ng tao sa paligid mo ay nakamasid at nagbabantay sa lahat ng kilos. Sadya bang ganito ang buhay, malupit? O may mga tao lamang na gusto kang hilahin para sa pang-interest na layunin. Kung sabagay kung magpapalit man tayo ng katayuan kahit sa isang araw lang, ikaw ay magiging ako at ako ay magiging ikaw hindi ko nga maitatangging at maitatago ang nararamdaman mo, na sa kabila ng mga pagsubok sa buhay nananatili pa ring matayog. Nakukuha ang naisin at hindi pinababayaan kahit na may mga panahong tumalikod at tumaliwas sa kanyang turo sapagkat ang lahat ng ito'y isang pagsubok lamang.
Lahat tayo ay may kanya-kanyang pagkakamali at pinagsisisihan sa nagawa pero hindi na natin ito kayang ibalik bagkus itama na lang ang kasalukuyan. At lahat tayo ay may mga sikretong pinagkakainggatan. Ngunit hindi natin pwedeng itaas ang sarili at gumawa ng kwento para lamang pagtakpan ang sariling butas at baho. Meron ka bang nakita at narinig na magnanakaw na umamin sa kanyang kasalanan kahit maraming testigo? Hindi naman masamang umamin sa kasalanan, di ba?!

Hindi ka man lang ba tinatamaan ng konsiyensya? o sadyang nilamon ka na ng kasakiman. Hindi rin magtatagal sa kabila ng paninira at kathang isip mong kwento lalabas din ang katotohanan. "Walang lihim ang hindi nabubunyag" hindi man ito ang panahon, paniguradong hahagupit din lahat 'to sayo, higit pa sa inaasahan ng sinuman. Hangga't maaga pa, ang lahat ng tao sa mundo ay may karapatang magbago. Hindi pa huli ang lahat at walang nakaka-alam baka bukas wala ka na, ako o sila. Kaya simulan natin ang pagbabago-sarali.

Ngunit hindi mo alam ang maaring mangyari ngayon. Pero panigurado ko, marami jan sa paligid ang mga inggetera at hihilain ka pababa. Nakakapagod na sa araw-araw na lng may bagong intrigang gagawin sa'yo. Sabi nga sa kanta ni Eric Clapton, "Before you accuse me (take a look at yourself)" baka may naiwan ka pang muta at para sigurado isang malaking salamin na ang gamitin mo.
Huwag kang manira ng kapwa mo akala mong wala kang kapintasan, ah. At kung minsan kailangan mo munang itikom at busalan ang bibig mo upang manahimik. Baka kulang ka sa dasal o kaya naman hindi mo lang sadyang alam at sinasapuso ang turo at nananaig sa'yo ang masama dahil sa pagkainggit, pagkagahaman at pilit mong tinataas ang iyong sarili. Sabi nga sa Matthew 5:7, "Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy." Hinayhinay lang at baka matinik ka ng malalim.
Hindi naman masamang magbuhat ng sariling bang-ko pero alalahanin mo siguraduhin mong makailang ulit mo itong inisip bago mo gawin, baka naman wala ka nun at maaring tumalbog sa'yo.

"Your Enemies" sapagkat kulang ka lang sa pansin at ang pikon ay laging talo. Amen.

How To Deal With People Who Put You Down

Dealing with people who people who put you down can be a painful and hurtful experience.
Sometimes, the scars even last a lifetime.

I know I’ve certainly experienced put downs from people at various times throughout my life. I’m not sure it’s possible to go through life not meeting one of these people somewhere along the way so the best strategy seems to be to learn how to deal with them prior to interacting with them.

Here are my suggestions on how to deal with people who put you down:
People Who Put You Down Are Hurt Themselves
The first thing to know is that a happy, self confident, person does not put others down. They might provide constructive criticism but they won’t put others down. This tells you a lot about the person who criticizes you. Some people are very negative about others because:

- they need to make themselves feel like they're in control or more powerful or to cover up their own insecurities
- they’ve experienced a trauma of their own in the past and they don’t know how to deal with the pain so they'll hurt others as a defense mechanism.

People’s tirades against you will probably reveal to you just how unhappy and disillusioned and frustrated that person is with life, and that's their problem, not yours. Knowing this can go a long way to being able to detach from the comments. If you know it has more to do with the person making the comments than about you, it makes it far easier not feel hurt by what’s been said.

Emotionally detaching from a person like this can be hard to do but you need to refuse to become involved. That person wants you to feel badly about yourself. Don’t give them that power.

Comebacks and Comments for People Who Put You Down
The French have a great saying that translated means, “spirit of the stairs”. It’s all those comments and comebacks you think of later that you wished you’d said to the person at the time. But, really, it’s no use sinking to that person’s level. That’s what they want. They want to get a reaction out of you, they want you to feel bad and their intent quite likely was to hurt you. So, by responding with similar put downs against them really only plays into their plan and ends up hurting yourself. You also don’t want to end up with regrets later over what you said in anger. So, what can you say? Try one of the following:

Thank you for your opinion
A response which will throw most criticizers off is to simply say, “Thank you for your opinion” and then just leave it at that. This effectively ends the conversation. They’re waiting for you to respond with anger or a comeback of your own and when you don’t, there’s nothing left for them to say.

Thank you for your gift but I think you should keep it.
When you feel that someone is attacking you can say to them:
“Thank you for your ‘gift’ - but I think you should keep it.”
Or
“That’s very generous of you but I can’t accept that.”

With this comment, it's a reminder to people how powerful their words are and that they should be more aware of what they're saying. Words can be used for good or evil and people tend to forget how damaging their words can be against someone's self esteem. It's also a reminder to you that it’s their anger not yours. You don’t need to take on someone else’s burden. They need to deal with their anger. They may want you to accept their hatred and anger as your own, but it’s really a “gift” that you don't need.

If you take their comments to heart and let them fester inside of you then you've taken on their anger. Just let it go. You don't need it.

Thank You, You May Be Right
Byron Katie in her book, “I Need Your Love – Is That True?” says the best response is to say, “thank you, you may be right.” Her theory is that if a comment makes you feel defensive then that’s a clue that you need to look inside yourself and see why the comment bothers you so much. This could be like receiving a great gift because you’ve discovered an area within that needs healing.

A person can't hurt you unless you let it. It's just a comment that why it's your reaction to the words that's the most important thing to look at. So you could try honestly looking at yourself to see why that person believes that particular comment is true. Are there things you could change? Can you see times when that comment is true about you?

Also, can you figure out why this particular comment bothers you so much? It’s your reaction which will teach you the most about yourself. It's about you and not the other person in this case.

Let the person know how you feel
It’s so important not to sink to that person’s level by retaliating. You could tell the person that you find their comment offensive though. Not in an angry way. Just as a statement of fact. For example, “I feel offended when you dismiss my ideas like that.” Just say it calmly and wait for their response. If possible, try to do this when you’re one on one with the person. They may not even realize that they’re putting you down.

Or if it’s at work and you feel the person is making remarks about your personal behavior, for example, “You’re too sensitive”, you could say, “I’d like to keep this conversation on a professional level, Thanks.” or “Let’s keep our discussion focused on the real issue at hand here.”

This way you’re letting them know that you don’t appreciate their comments yet you’re remaining very professional.
Other aspects to Consider in Regards to Put Downs
You Don’t Need Someone Else’s Approval
There are times when people’s comments will seem like a put down because you’re really seeking their wholehearted approval. They could even say something like, “This is wonderful work you’ve done but could you fix the last paragraph to be stronger?” Then because you're desperate for their approval, you don’t hear the good part, you only hear what you perceive to be a criticism in that they don’t like one section.

If you don’t take it as a put put down then you’ll be more open to taking the comment as an opportunity to improve yourself and your work.

A Quick Way To Build Your Self Esteem - Stop Needing Approval

Are They Confirming Your Story?
In some situations, you may be interpreting someone’s comments as a put down when none was intended. This could be because that’s what you’re expecting or because you’ve got an internal story happening and you see what you want to believe.

Here’s example, if someone gives you a gift, and you truly believe that this person is only out to hurt you, you'll think something like, “sure, he’s just trying to get on my good side” or you’ll see it as insulting. When really the reality might be that they’re trying to show you how much they do care about you. So, ask yourself if you’re really hearing and seeing the situation just as it is, (nothing has any meaning until you give it meaning) or have you added your own story?

What's Your Life Story? Do You Need To Let It Go?

Are They Mirroring Your Beliefs?
Along with the point above is that if you feel deep inside that you’re unlovable, then people will treat you that way. If you feel you only deserve put downs and sarcasm, that is how people will treat you. So, if you discover that there’s a pattern with your relationships with other people, it may be time to ask yourself, what are your inner beliefs?
Mirroring - A Key To Understanding Yourself

Be Aware of the Subtle Put Downs
When you stop and pay attention to the messages you’re receiving every day, you’ll discover that you’re being subjected to more put downs than you probably thought. That’s because they’re everywhere. Everywhere you go, everywhere you look, everything you read, everything you see on TV, there are ads and different groups trying to tell you that you’re not good enough if you don’t have their latest product, or if you don’t look a certain way or if you don’t have a lot of material possessions or have a certain education. They subtly attack your self esteem and your self worth.

No one likes to be criticized and it’s tempting to be sucked into their way of thinking. That’s why in order to really have a healthy self esteem, you need to be able to withstand these constant negative messages about your value.
Summary for Dealing With People Who Put You Down
When dealing with people who put you down, remember:
1. Don’t retaliate with your own putdowns.
2. The comments will tell you a lot about the person who’s making the comments. It’s their anger and frustration and they should deal with it, not you.
3. Can you discover a gift within the comments? You might learn something valuable about yourself that needs to be healed or you might learn how you really feel about yourself.
4. Are you reading something into the comments that aren’t really there because you’re expecting them or because you have certain beliefs?
5. Be aware of the subtle messages (like advertising) that you hear every day which try to destroy your sense of value and self worth.

Put downs are never pleasant to deal with but if you can use them to your advantage, then that’s the best solution of all.

Every adversity carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit – Napoleon Hill

Always Be True To Yourself

Always be true to yourself! Never attempt to delete those words in your heart and mind.
For that is a valuable treasure, that can aid and lead to understand who you are.

Always be true to yourself! Never be afraid to accept who you are.
Think positively and believe in yourself. So you can be able to accept and appreciate who you are.

Always bear in mind you are a unique individual. Created by the loving hands of the Almighty God.
He created you with special purpose, to plant and spread seeds of your uniqueness, and productivity in this land.

Always be true to yourself! Never be discourage nor be afraid by negative comments or feedback.
Welcome it with an open-mind, for these can also help and guide you to become a well-grown individual.

If you have an enemy, remember never to hate him. When you hate him, you give him power over you.
Power over your thinking, your sleep, your health and happiness. Your hatred is not hurting him at all; it only turns your days and nights into a hellish turmoil.

Always be true to yourself! Remember that the best strategy to deal an enemy -
Pray, love, forgiveness, humility, open-mindedness, reconciliation, smile, tactfulness, and service.
Start now to apply those precepts in yourself, so you can be able to win favor from God and live at peace with your enemy.

As you travel in the games of life, always remember to think innovation of your being.
For that's the one and only keys to excel in this land. Remember that a gifted man will stand before kings,
A simple man will serve the skilled and kings!

Therefore, always be true to yourself! Remember God love you so much!
He cares and believes in you! That's why, ALWAYS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!

Wish you many blessings to come and God bless!

How to Deal With a Jealous Person

Whether you're dealing with a jealous acquaintance, relative, friend, mate or even a stranger, here's some step-by-step advice on how to respond. Also some tips to help you if you are feeling jealous as well.

Steps

1. Put yourself in the other person's shoes and understand the reasons behind his or her feelings. Jealousy often stems from insecurity or a sense of deep loss.
   
2. Offer encouragement and praise when something goes right for your friend, but whatever you do, don't hide your happiness for what is going right in your life. A true friend supports at all times and should be happy for your accomplishments.
   
3. Try to help the other person get what they are wishing to have. Give them helpful advice and suggestions.
   
4. Try not to say things that would make the person jealous. Don't have any big upset reaction to their jealousy because sometimes it feeds it. Stay calm and look them in the eye.
   
5. Look before you get involved with a very jealous person in a romantic relationship. If it is uncomfortable in any way-get out of the relationship at once. There are signs to watch for and it can be a big problem for you in the future. If they don't want you to have other friends-be careful. It is healthy and necessary for people to make friends, be comfortable around other people and make decisions based on your feelings or your judgement.
   
6. Realize that jealousy can be the root of many evil behaviors/ painful thoughts and even ruin a person. Everyone can feel jealous once in awhile but if it is always present and bothering you should seek help immediately. If you feel like you are doing strange, out of character things: spying, going through a person's things, waiting in your car at their work,etc. than you might be in the state of "romantic jealousy". It can be agony and you need to talk to someone about your problem.
   
7. Listen to the little voice inside of you. If it tells you to avoid, be afraid or scared of a person-listen to it.
   

Tips

• You might be a fun, beautiful, gregarious person that people are jealous of. Too bad. Let them. You won't serve yourself any better by catering to their hate.
  
• When someone is envious of you, it means that you have something they want. If you want to help them and they seem nice and worth the effort, offer to tell them where you got that shirt or those shoes. Tell them how you stay positive.
  
• Empowering them is a good way to diffuse their jealousy, but only do this for those people you feel are worthy of your time and energy. Ignore the others.
  
• Their jealousy is a mask for insecurity. Once you recognize there's nothing behind the veneer, you'll be fine.
  
• You have the right as a person to be in a stable healthy relationships. Choose to do so
  

Warnings

• Jealous people will try to bring you down to their level. Don't let them. You don't have to be in a abusive relationship with anyone!
  
• If your mate is always jealous for no reason, accusing you of false affairs or activities, than you may be in trouble. Extreme jealousy can lead to very dangerous behavior. If you are not sure if your mate or date is mentally stable-be very careful. Stay safe and protect yourself. Don't make fun of them just reassure them that you care about them. Consider getting out of the relationship slowly and over time.
  
• Someone acting jealous does not mean they care about you. It means they have self esteem problems or can not accept the end of the relationship.
  
• If you feel extreme jealousy and want to hurt the person or their belongings. Stop! Understand that your pain will stop over time and you will deeply regret any violence you have done. You need to reach out and talk to someone even if it is embarrassing. The person that you will feel jealous over has changed or moved on with their life. Ask yourself why? Try to "vent" out your strong feelings in writing as well just don't take actions towards the person.
  
• You have the right to end any conversation with a person who puts you down or is nasty in anyway.

Si Plastic at si Balot

Bakit marami sa ating mga tao ngayon mayroong kaugaliang balot? Mga taong maraming kasinungalingang ginagawa, gumagawa ng mga kalokohang palihim, tipong pag kaharap mo ang bait-bait sayo pero pag hindi ka na nakaharap sinasaksak ka na sa likod.

BULOK!

Kalat na kalat na yang ganyang ugali eh.. sa school, sa trabaho, sa barkadahan. Nangyayari yang ugaling balot na yan.

Anong sinasabi ko? - Pareho ang balot at ang katangian ng taong plastic.

Unang-una sa lahat baket?

Yung balot at yung taong plastic hindi mo pwedeng pakisamahan, kumbaga sa balot hindi mo pwedeng kainin yan delikado eh. Alam mo kung bakit? Nakakahigh blood, nakakabwisit.

Eto pa, yung kaplastikan ng tao nahahawig din sa balot yan. Pansinin niyo yung balot napakaganda nung balat o shell. Parang ang sarap hawakan, parang ang ku-kyut WOW!!! Akala mo ordinaryong itlog, pero pag binuksan mo yung balot sa loob, talagang kadiri yun. Tignan mo yung itsura sa loob ang baboy.

Ganon din ang plastic na tao, akala mo kung sinong ampuputi, ampuputi ng balat, akala mo santo tapos kapag binuklat mo EEEE kadiri din pala.

Yung balot at yung kaugaliang kaplastikan ay nalalako din. Paano ko nasabi? Yung pag sinabi mo kasing nalalako, nadidistribute. Alam mo, yung ugaling kaplastikan kapag inapply mo yan sa isa pwedeng ikahawa ng iba. Kapag nasanay ang tao sa mundo na ganon, na ang lahat ng nakapalibot sa kanya puro plastic mismong siya magiging ganun na rin. Naididistribute ang kaplastikan from 1 person to another, tulad ng swine flu ikakalat at ikakalat yan ng hindi natin napapansin. Tulad ng balot na ibinebenta ng magbabalot, nalalako rin ang kaplastikan.

Nabibili rin ng pera yan, yang kaplastikan. Merong mga tao na dahil nabibigyan sila ng bagay na pinansyal o na materyal, kahit hindi naman nila gusto yung tao, pinapakitaan nila ng mabuti. Kahit hindi sila sang-ayon, kunyari sangayon sila. Kahit ayaw nila kasama, kunyari pinapakisamahan nila. O, di' ba nabibili rin yun ng pera?

HINDI MAN BALOT ANG PAMBANSANG PAGKAIN NG PINOY, PERO SA TINGIN KO YUNG BALOT, PAMBANSANG UGALI NG PINOY

Hindi lahat na ibig sabihin pambansa ay ibig sabihin lahat tayo ganon. Karamihan ganon.

Alam niyo po ba yung balot, ay punong puno ng protina, kaya nga daw nakakapagpalakas daw ito ng tuhod. Pero ang hindi nila alam, habang binibigyan ka ng balot ng protina hindi mo namamalayan na binibigyan ka naman nito ng problema sa blood pressure at sa puso.

Ganun din sa taong plastic, binibigyan ka niya ng ikatutuwa mo pero hindi niya pinapaalam sayo ung mga bagay na ikakagalit at ikakabadtrip mo.

Yung balot sa loob mayroon ding bato yun tapos yung dilaw, sabaw, at saka yung sisiw.
Yun yung pagkataong pwede nating ikumpara sa isang tao. Unang-una ung pagiging bato. Ano bang pakielam niya? Anong pakielam niya sa nararamdaman mo? Eh plastic nga siya db? Kunwari concern, kunwari ang bait pero hindi pala. Masyado nang matigas yung damdamin niya wala na siyang pakielam sa nararamdaman mo, basta ang importante yung kanya, nagagago ka niya. Yun ung pagiging bato..

Yung dilaw naman sa balot o yung 'pag sinabi nga naten sa english yellow, ibig sbhn niyan kaduwagan. Sa taong plastic, may kaduwagan ba? Meron! sa taong plastic kaya hindi sila makakompronta o maging pranka, kaya hindi sila nagiging tapat sa kapwa nila dahil may kahalong karuwagan sa puso nila.

Ngayon yung sisiw naman. Ano naman yung sisiw sa taong plastic? Yun yung may tuka. Yung akala mo nakapikit, akala mo fetus, yun yung tumutuka sayo. Yun yung tumutuka sayo na hindi mo namamalayan, nakatago nga eh. Yan yung tatlong nakatago sa makinis na balat na hindi mo madidiskubre.

Meron pang sabaw! Ano naman yung sabaw? EDI UNG SIPSIP! HAHAHA!
'Di ba ang mga taong plastic sipsip? Tignan niyo may mga pagkakapareho talaga.

Saan naman na magkaiba yung balot at yung taong plastic? Mas mahirap to alam niyo kung bakit?

Kasi yung balot para malaman mong balot yun tinatapat sa bumilya yun. Padadaanin sa maliwanag na bumbilya yun kasi magiging visible yung loob makikita ngayon ng magbabalot na "Ah balot na to".

Eh ang tao kahit itapat mo sa malaking bumbilya yun kahit singlaki ng bumbilya ng Glorietta ang itapat mo run, kahit 'singdami ng bumbilya ng electric company o ng hardware yun, hindi mo pa rin makikita ang tunay niyang katauhan.

Sa mga nagbabasa: Ang magalit, sapul. Hahaha.

baloooooooooooooooooooooot

pahabol

kung ang tao ay hinulma sa putik bakit me taong plastic?

Maiba taya!

Kampihan... Kampihan... Kapag naalala ko ang salitang ito, muli akong bumabalik sa aking pagkabata. Ito'y madalas mong maririnig sa mga batang naglalaro upang makagawa ng grupo at minsan nama'y sa kanilang mga kaaway. May ibat' ibang dulot ang pagkakampi-kampi, depende sa kung papaano gamitin ng tao. Kadalasan kung sino ang ating kakampi sila lang ang pinakikinggan natin bakit hindi natin subukang pakinggan ang ibang panig. Hindi ba tayo masyadong nagiging makasarili sa katotohanan at nagbubulagbulagan sa pangyayari na dapat muna nating suriin bago bigyan ng sariling pananaw. Sa pagkakaalam ko, hindi naman tayo Diyos para manghusga at magbigay ng pinal na salita sa mga taong nakapaligid sayo. Baka naman tayo ay kabilang sa mga taong hindi marunong kumilala sa kasiyahan, sa mga tagumpay at mga bagay na natatamasa ng taong na sa paligid mo dahil ang gusto mo lang ay mapasaiyo ang sa iba at ang iyo ai para lamang sa iyo. Hinay-hinay lang kapatid baka naman malunod ka, huminga ka naman at magbigay sa iba.
Hindi na tayo mga bata mga kapatid, alam na naman siguro natin ang tama sa mali. Ito na siguro ang panahon upang matigil ang pagkakampi-kampi. Wala naman naidudulot itong mabuti bagkus nawawasak lang nila ang isang relasyon ng bawat indibidwal. Tapos na ang mga panahong ika'y bata, konting lawak naman pag-iisip!!! Nagiging tanga ka lang sa katotohanan.
Habang ginagawa ko itong blog na ito, natutuwa ako sa text ng isang kaibigan at may mensaheng: "huwag mong pansinin ang sasabhin ng ibang tao, basta't gawin mo lang ang gusto mo, dahil gawin mo man ito o hindi, palaging may sasabhin ang ibang tao." napaka inspiring di ba. hindi ba't angkop sa mga panahong ito ang mensaheng ito na kung saan ang ating kapaligiran ang puno na ng kasakiman at karamutan sas kasiyahan. kung minsan nakakalimutan nilang pahirin ang sariling muta at dungis sa kanilang mukha. At kadalasan, titignan ka simula ulo hanggang paa na akala mo'y isang kriminal at may nakahahawang sakit, pinandidirihan. Pero ikaw sa sarili mo, nakakalimutan mong suriin ang pisikal at ang pag-uugaling hindi kaaya-aya at umaalingasaw sa baho!!! Bwahaha... nakakatawa ka na lang, bago ka sana nanghusga at manira ka ng kapwa mo, sinigurado mo munang walang butas at kabulukan ang pagkatao mo!!! kaawawa-awa ka naman! kaya rin siguro hindi umuunlad ang ating bansa, dahil sa mga katulad mong chismoso at humihila pababa sa mga taong nakakaangat sayo.
Masakit man isipin, ang aking pinagsasabi pero alam kong ako'y nasa MALI! hahaha...dahil kahit anong aking gawin, mali pa rin sa mga taong nakamasid at tumitira patalikod, mga taong tamang palingharap. At TAMA sa mga taong naniniwala na walang lihim ang hindi mabubunyag, tayo'y hindi perpekto at nabubuhay sa kanyang paniniwala at prinsipyo na walang inaargabyado at tinatapakang tao! Live your life to the fullest. Siguro kung lahat ng pinagsasabi mo ay dinidibdib ko, baka inugat na ko sa pagkalugmok. Bwahahaha...tatawanan na lang kita.